My boyfriend is pretending to be a girl, am I overreacting?

Publication par Levarus

he IS a girl

Publication par PhantomScourge

Have you tried getting him to replace his addiction with something less harmful, like heroin?

Seriously. If you want to bring him back to reality, you need to break him of his WoW addiction, and the easiest way to do that is to find an alternative means of flooding his limbic system with dopamine. A three-day vodka bender should do the trick. When he "dries out", introduce him to a wonderful little game called Minecraft.

EDIT: I just realized that we've only been hearing one side of this story. Maybe you should ask him to come here and join the discussion.

Publication par MikadoGG

A relationship isn't a tit-for-tat zero-sum game where you have to keep track of everything and keep it even. If someone feels that they have the right to "get back" at their partner for some mistreatment instead of 1. letting it go or 2. breaking up, then there is something very wrong.

I've never been abusive in a relationship but I used to suffer from extreme mood swings and would alternate between being normal and being extremely sad/crying or angry. My husband stuck with me through it and I think him being there and being my anchor really helped me get back my sanity and I haven't had any mood swings in a good 3-4 years now. Does this mean though that he can start being abusive to me because of our past, to get back at me for it somehow? No. If he suffered from some problem I'd try my best also to stick it out with him because I love him and because I care, not because I feel guilty about the past.

Point is, of course it's hard for a bunch of strangers to judge what you should do. We don't know you and we don't know him and we only have the information you give us. But from that information I'd say he sounds like he just doesn't care about you anymore. A person might have severe issues, personality or mental problems etc. But that is no reason to push your loved ones away completely and instead spend time only with virtual friends. If he isn't even willing to give you the minimum of attention and courtesy to talk then he is not worth your time and your tears.

And also, I don't mean to get too personal, but how old are you/is he?

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My boyfriend is pretending to be a girl, am I overreacting?

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