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How to ask someone out?
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Post by
MyTie
I think the trick to asking someone out is finding a person who actually appreciates your own special brand of cheese.
American cheese tastes really bad. A man needs to know his cheese.
I don't think you get the point. You are so quick to be critical of everyone else's cheese and smacking them down for it, that you don't see that your own cheese needs a little work.
Post by
Laihendi
cheese
Cheese
MyTie is more critical of different types of cheese than anyone Laihendi doesn't know.
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Post by
MyTie
cheese
Cheese
MyTie is more critical of different types of cheese than anyone Laihendi doesn't know.
Laihendi has yet in this thread to make any suggestions or porpose methods for asking someone out, but instead is just being critical of everyone else. Try your hand at it, if your so great.
It takes a lot of courage to step out and use your sense of humor, and try to be yourself, becaue you know someone may laugh at you. Laihendi, you show how insensitive and stuck up you are.
Post by
Skyfire
It takes a lot of courage to step out and use your sense of humor, and try to be yourself, becaue you know someone may laugh at you. Laihendi, you show how insensitive and stuck up you are.
I'd actually say it's easier to approach via humor rather than in seriousness, because you can be prepared to be laughed at, or with, if you're lucky. With being serious, it's either a serious no, or a serious yes, and I think taking the serious no would be worse than taking the laughing no.
I could be very wrong, of course.
Post by
MyTie
Courage either way.
When someone asks you out, they are admitting that they are attracted to you. They are admitting that they are attracted enough to leave themselves exposed to ridicule. To then be a jerk to someone who just paid you that compliment shows that you are a really petty person. Anyone who is rude to someone who just asked them out deserves to be alone for a very very long time.If someone said that to Laihendi, he would probably respond with something like "ERRR HEEE HEEE HEEE UR SO CUTE" in a loud obnoxious voice. Then he would just walk away.
Post by
StumpJumper
Alright... this is for all you AFC's out there.... Read it, learn it, live it.
You know what girls want? A guy who can roll up, be funny,
control the coversation, raise emotions, be a source of
validation and/or social status, add energy to the interaction
so chemistry takes off, and not ruin it by saying anything
stupid about what's going on.
This is Fact. There are Tons of books out there that will change your lives if you let them... you gotta want it tho.
Flame on all ya want - but I know it's true. I live it and love it.
Good luck man. Life's to short not to get out there and try...
Post by
blademeld
Is it expected that everything turns into Laihendi vs MyTie in Randomness?
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Post by
Eccentrica
1. Any girl old enought to do anything interesting on a date with is way beyond using third parties to communicate.
2. Come up with an activity that will provide you with an opportunity to converse (ie, not a movie), but also give you the chance to have mini breaks to take the pressure off. I suggest Golf (mini or otherwise), Rollerblading, a Comedy show perhaps.
3. Just straight out ask. Don't beat around the bush. Be specific in your approach, as in "Hey xxxxx would you like to go xxx with me on Saturday night". Look her in the eyes when you ask, not at your feet, or her chest
4. Give her a few days notice. If you ask for a date on short notice you will probably be disappointed in her response. If she turns you down, but looks remorseful about it, offer an alternate time for your date, or an alternate activity, she may just not like the proposed activity or have plans for that time.
5. If she still turns you down, tell her that if she changes her mind you would still be interested in doing something with her. She may just be shy and may approach you later.
Good luck
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Post by
Haxzor
This isn't asking a random at a bar out. I've known her for a long time.
Post by
Laihendi
Bada bing, bada boom.
Um.. ok.
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119112
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Post by
Haxzor
Kinda hard to spend more time with her. Uni is a %^&*!
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Post by
ArgentSun
This
explains my series of failures...
And as it appears, my approach towards girls has been entirely wrong for years. It looks like courting stopped working about 7 centuries ago :S Which would explain why I've been stuck in the "friends/best friends" zone.
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Post by
Laihendi
Kinda hard to spend more time with her. Uni is a %^&*!
Hmmmmmmm.
I know nothing more that can help.
Have a nice day.
*vanish*
oh and Laihendi? Dont judge me...
Oh-kay.
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